Thursday, July 06, 2006
8:19 PM
Haha. Today's gp and civics was quite crap. Build the most racist city. Haha. Lame. Supposed to be reverse physcology but well, it didnt work. It just showed how racist we are. =x. But well. I think its inevitable.

Recently some things happened. I realised that its just human nature to talk bad about people. Be it being jealous, out of hatred or whatever reason, its like badmouthing is rampant. Its kind of sad i would say. People started living in communities and getting together because of improved friendships. But its like as people get closer, people love to betray or badmouth others. I would say badmouthing is a display of bad attitude, just like backstabbing is a display of betrayal.

When i mean badmouthing, i mean by saying things that are not true, or perceived by the person himself to others. Words are powerful. Its like why people want to risk saying things with the idea in mind that they may eventually be sued. Its the impact of the content, i would say, that is like boundless. When something is said, even if you CLAIM AND APOLOGISE for saying wrong things, the image and the impression would be locked into people's mind. This will inevitably change other's impression on the person. Its impact is really great. That is why, for a fact, i do not like to talk much about others.

I believe that some things heard should be for your ears only. You arel ucky to hear it. Its a privilege. Hence i dont believe that i have the right to tell others. I also have comments when i hear things, but i choose to keep those comments to myself. most of the time at least, unless i deem the issue of no great importance. But well, in most case the things that we hear about are impactful. Gossips, for one fact, is something that is impactful. When many people gossip, they think that its just trivial, but when its unleased, i believe its like a really impactful thing. Things spread far and wide. Thats the effect of badmouthing.

Well. I hope i survive well.

`someday my princess will come. She just took a wrong turn, got lost and is too stubborn to ask for directions]]* ;